Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 44625, 43594, 44756, 44730)
Retry secret reference addition on conflict
* Tolerates leading or trailing etcd reads when fetching liveServiceAccount - fixes#25416
* Tolerates conflicts when updating the service account with the secret reference (does RetryOnConflict before deleting token and completely restarting the flow) - fixes#44054