Lint Python notebooks with ruff. (#12677)

The new ruff version fixed the blocking bugs, and I was able to fairly
easily us to a passing state: ruff fixed some issues on its own, I fixed
a handful by hand, and I added a list of narrowly-targeted exclusions
for files that are currently failing ruff rules that we probably should
look into eventually.

I went pretty lenient on the docs / cookbooks rules, allowing dead code
and such things. Perhaps in the future we may want to tighten the rules
further, but this is already a good set of checks that found real issues
and will prevent them going forward.

cookbook/petting_zoo.ipynb

@@ -146,7 +146,7 @@
     "            ):\n",
     "                with attempt:\n",
     "                    action = self._act()\n",
-    "        except tenacity.RetryError as e:\n",
+    "        except tenacity.RetryError:\n",
     "            action = self.random_action()\n",
     "        return action"
    ]