Fix subPath existence check to not follow symlink

Volume mounting logic introduced in #43775 and #45623 checks
for subPath existence before attempting to create a directory,
should subPath not be present.

This breaks if subPath is a dangling symlink, os.Stat returns
"do not exist" status, yet `os.MkdirAll` can't create directory
as symlink is present at the given path.

This patch makes existence check to use os.Lstat which works for
normal files/directories as well as doesn't not attempt to follow
symlink, therefore it's "do not exist" status is more reliable when
making a decision whether to create directory or not.

subPath symlinks can be dangling in situations where kubelet is
running in a container itself with access to docker socket, such
as CoreOS's kubelet-wrapper script

Kubernetes-commit: d552dff164dfc7b91d21bd7d7881838babab2a63

pkg/util/util.go

@@ -84,6 +84,15 @@ func FileExists(filename string) (bool, error) {
 	return true, nil
 }
 
+func FileOrSymlinkExists(filename string) (bool, error) {
+	if _, err := os.Lstat(filename); os.IsNotExist(err) {
+		return false, nil
+	} else if err != nil {
+		return false, err
+	}
+	return true, nil
+}
+
 // ReadDirNoStat returns a string of files/directories contained
 // in dirname without calling lstat on them.
 func ReadDirNoStat(dirname string) ([]string, error) {