This should fix a bug that could break masters when the EndpointSlice
feature gate was enabled. This was all tied to how the apiserver creates
and manages it's own services and endpoints (or in this case endpoint
slices). Consumers of endpoint slices also need to know about the
corresponding service. Previously we were trying to set an owner
reference here for this purpose, but that came with potential downsides
and increased complexity. This commit changes behavior of the apiserver
endpointslice integration to set the service name label instead of owner
references, and simplifies consumer logic to reference that (both are
set by the EndpointSlice controller).
Additionally, this should fix a bug with the EndpointSlice GenerateName
value that had previously been set with a "." as a suffix.
Without this it fails after deployments were switched from
extensions to apps with
```
E0902 11:25:51.197420 1 reflector.go:283] github.com/kubernetes-incubator/cluster-proportional-autoscaler/pkg/autoscaler/k8sclient/k8sclient.go:96: Failed to watch *v1.Node: unknown (get nodes)
E0902 11:25:53.118490 1 reflector.go:283] github.com/kubernetes-incubator/cluster-proportional-autoscaler/pkg/autoscaler/k8sclient/k8sclient.go:96: Failed to watch *v1.Node: unknown (get nodes)
E0902 11:25:54.997493 1 reflector.go:283] github.com/kubernetes-incubator/cluster-proportional-autoscaler/pkg/autoscaler/k8sclient/k8sclient.go:96: Failed to watch *v1.Node: unknown (get nodes)
E0902 11:25:57.097423 1 reflector.go:283] github.com/kubernetes-incubator/cluster-proportional-autoscaler/pkg/autoscaler/k8sclient/k8sclient.go:96: Failed to watch *v1.Node: unknown (get nodes)
E0902 11:25:59.097417 1 reflector.go:283] github.com/kubernetes-incubator/cluster-proportional-autoscaler/pkg/autoscaler/k8sclient/k8sclient.go:96: Failed to watch *v1.Node: unknown (get nodes)
I0902 11:25:59.697325 1 k8sclient.go:221] Falling back to extensions/v1beta1, error using apps/v1: deployments.apps "calico-typha" is forbidden: User "system:serviceaccount:kube-system:typha-cpha" cannot get resource "deployments/scale" in API group "apps" in the namespace "kube-system"
E0902 11:25:59.699833 1 autoscaler_server.go:120] Update failure: the server could not find the requested resource
```
Ref. https://github.com/kubernetes/test-infra/pull/13709
Work around Linux kernel bug that sometimes causes multiple flows to
get mapped to the same IP:PORT and consequently some suffer packet
drops.
Also made the same update in kubelet.
Also added cross-pointers between the two bodies of code, in comments.
Some day we should eliminate the duplicate code. But today is not
that day.
